The Science Behind Sugar Daddy Dating

The Sugar Daddy Game - Play to Win!

I see Sugar Daddy dating as a game with rules.  A game with certain rules and structures and you play it to win. And it’s not something random. And that is what I see all the time with Sugar Babies. They do this without any process or steps and are all over the place or one thing leading to another thing. If you would like to get inside my mind and go through my steps you can here: http://bit.ly/WHYT3B

Taylor Jones – Lifestyle Coach for Sugar Babies

Ever Been On A Really Bad Sugar Daddy Date?

Have you ever gone out with a Sugar Daddy who was just after you for sex?

Have you ever gone out with a Sugar Daddy who pretty much ignored you the whole time?

Have you ever gone out with a Sugar Daddy who treated you like a paid escort?

So what is it about dating that brings out the worst in everybody?

And what can you do about it?

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Divorced Mom Discovers Sugar Baby Lifestyle

When it comes to Sugar Babies, popular culture tends to depict them in the same image: a young, college-age woman who could appear on the cover of a magazine. But “Texasugah” is set to change the way the world views Sugar Babies, one person at a time.

Texasugah is a 38-year-old mother living in the Houston, Texas area. Her world is her son – and she works hard to make sure he has everything. She works hard for her success, and it shows: she has two masters’ degrees from top Universities, a rewarding career that almost spans two decades, and a mastery of three languages.

Texasugah wants women of all ages to know that Sugar Babies can be of any age and background.

Checkout the Interview: Divorced Mom Discovers Sugar Baby Lifestyle

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It’s Time for a Sugar Baby Reality Check

Okay Sugar Babies…

It’s time for a reality check.

And if you haven’t been keeping up with your Sugar Baby progress, this might come as a bit of a shock.  But believe me, it’s worth it – especially if you’re serious about finding the Sugar Daddy of your dreams.

So without further ado, it’s time to sit down, ask yourself a few vital questions, and really examine where you are on your Sugar Baby journey.

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Sugar Babies: Are You Letting Failure Stop You In Your Tracks?

I had a friend who looked to be a promising Sugar Baby.  She was bright, witty, intelligent, and classy – all the characteristics Sugar Daddies look for.  She had a good head on her shoulders, and she was prepared to do the work to find her perfect Sugar Daddy.

She thought she found him – but after a few dates, when she tried to discuss financial arrangements with him, he shot her down.

Thanks to this rejection, she immediately withdrew from the Sugar Baby world – and it took her a long time to work up the strength to dive back in again.

Why am I telling you this?  For one simple reason: too many Sugar Babies let themselves get thrown off by Sugar Daddy rejection.  They think that failure is a bad thing, and that they’ll never be the best Sugar Babies they want to be.

However, this is exactly the wrong way to approach Sugar Baby failure.  In fact, I want to point out that failure should be planned for and even eagerly anticipated.  I know that if I haven’t been rejected by a few Sugar Daddies in my past, then I haven’t done enough to truly learn on my Sugar Baby journey. 

The bottom line is that rejection is a normal part of the Sugar Baby process.  Expect it.  Manage it. Own it.

The trick is to prepare for failure before you even get rejected.  Think of it as applying to college: you wouldn’t just apply to your dream college and hope for the best, would you?  Of course not.  You’d spread out your options. 

And that’s exactly what you need to do with Sugar Daddy dating.  Don’t pin all your hopes on one man right in the beginning.  You hold the cards.  You have the power.  Date as few or as many Sugar Daddies as what makes you feel comfortable.  That way, should you encounter rejection, you’ll already have a horde of other Sugar Daddies waiting to make you feel like the queen you are.

Whining and bashing the Sugar Daddy who rejected you is a great way to get stuck in the cycle of failure.  It’s just another way of protecting your ego – and there’s no way you can possibly learn what you need to learn to become your best Sugar Baby possible.

It’s easy to get angry at rejection.

It’s easy to get sad about rejection.

But it’s also easy to come up with a Plan B for rejection – and that’s exactly where my above advice comes into play.

So what would you rather do: let failure knock you down, or eagerly learn from the experiences to become the best Sugar Baby possible?

I think the answer to that question is clear.

How have you used rejection to improve your Sugar Daddy dating experience?

To Your Sugar Baby Success,

Taylor

Lifestyle Coach for Sugar Babies

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How Images Improve—or Destroy—Sugar Baby Success

Fellow Sugar Babies,

When you use pictures on your profile, two things can happen:

They can either help you achieve your Sugar Baby goals, or throw you right back to Square One.

Seems simple enough.

But until you learn the subtle nuances of how pictures affect Sugar Daddies, you’re standing in front of a firing squad wearing a blind fold.

So let’s remove that blind fold and get you out of there fast!

You’ve heard the old adage: “A picture is worth a 1,000 words.”

But in the Sugar Baby/Daddy world, how much is that picture actually costing you?

When you have the wrong image, Sugar Daddies either ignore your profile, or misinterpret how you’d like to be viewed.  For example, if you’re a highly educated Sugar Baby with a picture of yourself in a bikini, you won’t attract Sugar Daddies who are interested in what you have to say.

So here’s the ultimate question: “What makes a profile picture right or wrong?”

Here’s a litmus test:

When Selecting your Pictures, Make Sure You Have a Reason For Doing So

Look:

There’s plenty of real reasons for using an image on your profile.

So, when you’re going to use an image, make sure you have a reason that differs from the usual “It looks good.”

What are the reasons for using your images? What is the message you want to send to your Sugar Daddy?

Let me tell you this:

People browse the Internet reflexively. They often scan the pages they’re looking at, and it’s very easy for them to miss something vitally important to your Sugar Baby goals.

You want to use every tool in your arsenal to ensure they see what you want them to see.

You spend hours crafting your profile, so spend some extra time choosing the perfect picture for your profile. When you have the right image, you’ll be able to increase your conversion rates for generating responses.

Need help with your Sugar Baby profile? Check out The Sugar Baby Survival Kit! The Essential tool for crafting the perfect Sugar Daddy Ad.

Taylor Jones

Lifestyle Coach For Sugar Babies
Sugar Daddy Formula | Warning: may cause sugargasm
www.thesugardaddyformula.com
@taylorjones  sugarbabycoach@gmail.com

What Sugar Daddies Want: How This One Simple Question Reveals Everything

You’ve been seeing your Sugar Daddy for some time now, and you think he’s fantastic. To really cement the Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby relationship, you’ll want to establish an allowance.

To do that, you know you’ll need to provide some value to your Sugar Daddy – but what will he considerable valuable?

Let me level with you for a moment here. There’s a much better, and totally cool way to figure out what Sugar Daddies want, and now I’ll tell you all about it.

But first, it’s important for all Sugar Babies to understand this vital concept:

“Sugar Daddies don’t know what they want until you give it to them.”

Question is, if your Sugar Daddy doesn’t know what he wants, how do you know what to give him?

The Secret to Discovering What Sugar Daddies Want is through Conversation

You know what’s funny?

If you approach Sugar Daddies as a human being instead of an ATM, and ask them the right questions, they’ll tell you exactly what they want.

And they won’t lie, either.

I’m telling you to open a conversation with your Sugar Daddies, and listen to what they have to say.

Sounds tough, but with the following tactic, it’s real easy…

“What Are You Missing out of your life?”

Why This Question is a “Double-Edged Sword”

If you don’t address it, this tactic can hurt. If you do address it, you’ll reap the rewards.

Here’s the deal:

When you ask people a personal question like “What are you missing out of your life,” you MUST take action in tending to what it is that he is missing to create that emotional bond.

So look deep inside yourself.  If your Sugar Daddy tells you exactly what he’s missing out of life, are you prepared to put in the work to help fulfill that missing puzzle piece?  Because if not, you’ll end up missing out on plenty of high-quality Sugar Daddies.

The bottom line is once you ask this question, you’ll know what your Sugar Daddy wants…and then it’ll be up to you to provide it to them.

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To Your Sugar Baby Success,

Taylor

Lifestyle Coach For Sugar Babies
Sugar Daddy Formula | Warning: may cause sugargasm
www.thesugardaddyformula.com
@taylorjones  sugarbabycoach@gmail.com

If you’re too shy to ask this question upfront, discover how you can ask the same question in your own words. Or, why not take this to the comments section so we can brainstorm together?

Biggest Mistake Every Sugar Baby Makes (And How to Avoid It)

There’s no denying that you’re a talented, attractive, and educated Sugar Baby.  You’ve got a lot to offer one lucky Sugar Daddy…and you’re determined to find him by creating the most perfect profile imaginable.

When Sugar Daddies read your profile, they look at your picture and read the headline first.

And when they click on your profile, you have seconds to grab their attention before you lose them.

How do you get these Sugar Daddies to respond?

You craft a witty headline. You pick the best picture for your profile. You make sure to mention your talents and passions.  You think you’re doing everything by the book…

But for some reason, you’re not getting the responses you were hoping to get.

So what is it that you are doing that is turning these potential Sugar Daddies away?

If you have used the site SeekingArrangement.com, you’ve already fallen into the trap – and that trap is nothing more than outlining the financial arrangement you’d like to make with a potential Sugar Daddy. 

Find it hard to believe that being so upfront with financials with Sugar Daddies is a major turn off?

Believe me, it’s true.  I know this sounds crazy.  After all, they call themselves a Sugar Daddy and should know what to expect…

But at the end of the day, who wants to be treated like an ATM?

Nobody wants to be anyone’s personal ATM, no matter how much money they have to spend. High-quality Sugar Daddies want to feel as though you’re interested in them for who they are, not their bank account balance.  Only when you reach that stage with your Sugar Daddy can you begin talking about your financial expectations – and that certainly doesn’t occur on your Sugar Baby dating profile!

The bottom line is that if you’re using SeekingArrangement.com (or any other Sugar Daddy dating site where you have to outline your financial expectations) it would be in your best interest to leave that “open.”

wow I love it :D i would have never come up with that at all seriously i love it.wow. cant stop saying that! Sugar Baby S.

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU. :)

your truly a godsend. I finally have a proper profile, and i couldn’t be happier about it. Sugar Baby G.

Taylor,

What are your thoughts? Do you leave the amount “open” or select actual limits to what you are seeking from your Sugar Daddy on your profile?

Customizing a Personal Ad to Catch a Generous Sugar Daddy’s Eye

So you want to make a big splash in the online Sugar Daddy dating world, but you’re not sure how to do it.

Well, you could cross your fingers and hope that you’ll magically create a profile that will catch the eye of a certain Sugar Daddy.

Or you could create an online profile that’s so powerful; it’s guaranteed to have you standout from the crowd of Sugar Babies and attracting quality Sugar Daddies.

Your online profile is incredibly crucial to the Sugar Daddy dating process, because it presents your potential Sugar Daddies with a mental image of what life will be like with you as a Sugar Baby.  From the picture to the headline, every single word counts. 

And every single facet of your online profile needs to conjure up a mental image of a fantastic life with you. 

I know it’s a lot to ask for.

But guess what: it’s easier to do than you think.

And it’s all thanks to the Sugar Baby Survival Kit: The Essential Tool for Crafting the Perfect Personal Ad!

This guide is jam-packed with powerful advice that shows you the EXACT steps you need to take to attract tons of generous and mature Sugar Daddies.   From your profile picture to the emails you send to Sugar Daddies, it’s all lined out for you.

Did I mention that this guide provides you with the exact personal ads and emails that successful Sugar Babies have used to attract their Sugar Daddies?

It really is as simple as plugging in this guide and watching as your Sugar Daddy dating lifestyle take off.

You can find it here: https://ganxy.com/i/56110

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To Your Sugar Baby Success,

Taylor

How Contrast Helps You Get More Sugar Daddies

Sugar Babies,

Prepare yourself for a challenge.

You have less than three seconds to entice a potential Sugar Daddy to read your personal ad. Your challenge: What do you do to grab that Sugar Daddies attention?

Sadly, most Sugar Babies will write a mediocre headline, pick an unflattering picture, and write an uninteresting personal ad that reflects what it is that they hope to get out of their potential Sugar Daddy. This is the bare minimum.

Others still will post a practically nude photo of themselves in a cheap ploy to get a Sugar Daddy’s attention.  Then they’ll wonder what they did wrong when they keep ending up with low-life men who aren’t high-quality Sugar Daddies at all.

The bottom line is this: If you only focus on what it is that you are seeking to get out of the relationship, you lose out on the opportunity to attract a quality Sugar Daddy who is generous.

Let’s cut to the chase. What can you do to ensure you don’t miss out quality Sugar Daddies?

The Power of Contrast

Let’s say I give you a shopping list of ten items. Nine of the items are written in blue and one is written in green. I then ask you to memorize the list.

Which item do you think you’ll have the best chance of remembering? The green one, right?

Most people remember the green one because the unexpected contrast instantly calls their attention and leaves a lasting impression.

In Social Psychology, this is known as the Von Restorff Effect. And while it was discovered 77 years ago, the impact it has today is huge. It essentially means that the item that sticks out like a sore thumb is more likely to be remembered than any other item.

So Sugar Babies, if you “stick out like a sore thumb”, guess what?  Yup, you guessed it – you’ll have tons of generous Sugar Daddies begging to meet with you.

Competition in 2012 is fierce. There are a record number of Sugar Babies competing for the same Sugar Daddy attention. You must stand-out to be successful.  

How Can You Use Contrast Right Now?

We have all seen on every Sugar Baby dating website, the girls out there who are posing in their sexiest outfits, in very posed and unnatural positions.

So if you want to create a contrast, try this one on for size: post a picture of you laughing.  Or engaged in a hobby that you absolutely love. 

You know what this communicates to Sugar Daddies?  It communicates passion.  Drive.  Warmth.  Genuine. Friendliness.

These are all qualities that will have Sugar Daddies tripping over themselves to share with you – and you’ll attract some of the most generous Sugar Daddies around!

Note: If you’re having problems figuring this stuff out, please feel free to leave a comment. I’ll gladly help you implement this on your profile or send me an email directly at sugarbabycoach@gmail.com.

Or, for regular advice delivered straight into your email inbox, subscribe to The Formula Newsletter.  I’ll be giving you a lot more awesome tips like this in the near future!

When you write your next personal ad, follow these tips and let me know your results!

Taylor,

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Discover how to Increase Sugar Daddy Satisfaction in Just 3 Simple Steps

Hey Sugar Babies,

If you could ask any successful Sugar Baby the secret behind her incredible allure with Sugar Daddies, I guarantee you she’d answer with this simple statement:

She knew how to increase her Sugar Daddy’s satisfaction.

Now, before you jump ahead of yourself, I’m not talking about sexual satisfaction.  After all, any Sugar Daddy can go out and find a woman to fulfill his sexual desires.  No, increasing Sugar Daddy satisfaction is all about understanding what makes him passionate, and how you can fulfill that passion in a way that makes you indispensable.

I’m sharing this with you because this is a crucial phase in the Sugar Daddy life cycle. If you execute it right, you can minimize short-term relationships, and increase Sugar Daddy satisfaction.

How can you create a satisfied Sugar Daddy who will make it his ultimate goal to continue to pamper you over the long haul?

1. Justify the Allowance By Getting to Know Your Sugar Daddy

When your Sugar Daddy provides you with an allowance, he will have to justify what has taken place. After all, at the very heart of the Sugar Daddy is a shrewd businessman.  And if you don’t provide him with value for the allowance, the relationship won’t go well.

Now, I’d like to emphasize again that you shouldn’t mistake this for sex.  In fact, that’s a very rookie mistake!

To provide maximum value, do this: don’t make the allowance your primary goal.  Instead, make it your ultimate goal to learn more about your Sugar Daddy.  

You likely recognize this as social proof. The problem is, many Sugar Babies makes the allowance as the focal point of the relationship even before getting to know their Sugar Daddy to make sure that it would be a good fit for both. But don’t be too quick to forget about making the allowance the main topic.  You’ll want to bring it up at some point, but not at the expense of making your Sugar Daddy feel like he’s being used.

2. Surprise Your Sugar Daddy with a Gift

When Sugar Daddies spend money on you, the last thing you want them to think is “Was this worth it?” To combat this, you should surprise each one of your Sugar Daddies with a little bonus. To elaborate, let me share the fascinating experiment that helped some of my fellow Sugar Babies increase their Success Rate by 23%.

Picture a restaurant that offers mints on the way out. Do you think customers will leave a bigger tip if the waiter left a mint with the check? How about 2 mints? Or, what if the waiter left 1 mint, walked away, and then out of nowhere, went back to the table to leave an additional mint?

So think about this. If an unexpected mint is representative of Sugar Daddy satisfaction, which I believe they are, you should surprise your Sugar Daddies with a gift, valuable bonus. They won’t expect it and it will help them answer the question of “Was it worth it?” with an enthusiastic, head-nodding, “Yes!”

3. Be an Outlet for Support

This is a clear, Sugar Baby-winning decision. Nothing decreases Sugar Daddy satisfaction more than being bombarded with the drama of what is going on in your life. You want to be an outlet. You want to be his oasis in the desert where you are the only one that can comfort him.

Why does this work? For starters, when Sugar Daddies spend money on something, they tend to doubt themselves on whether if the situation is right. By making your Sugar Daddy not feel like an ATM, you’ll alleviate the doubts he might have over your intentions.  Once you clear away those doubts, you’ll win a life-long Sugar Daddy.

Taylor,

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The Bottom Line

Just because you entered into an arrangement with a Sugar Daddy, it doesn’t mean the work is over. Your job is to turn your Sugar Daddy into a loyal confidant.  If you follow these strategies, you should be well on your way. What do you think?

How to Increase Your Sugar Daddy Allowance Pt 1

Okay, Sugar Babies, it’s time to talk about something I know you’re eager to learn about: how to get a bigger allowance from your Sugar Daddy.

But before you start envisioning yourself wearing lower cut tops or pleading with him for more money, stop right there.  I’m going to reveal a strategy to you that harnesses the power of psychology and marketing, so your Sugar Daddy will practically be begging you to accept his higher allowance.

Don’t believe me?  Read on!

It’s common knowledge that pricing products or services is an ongoing battle with human psychology. If your price is too low, people may think it’s junk. If it’s too high, they may think it’s a rip-off.

Now, let’s assume you’re seeking an allowance from your Sugar Daddy. How could you negotiate a higher amount and have Sugar Daddies gladly pay it?

It’s all about perception!

The Power of Perception

Let’s say you’re lying on a beach on a hot day. For the last hour you’ve been thinking about how much you want a nice cold bottle of your favorite beer. Your friend gets up to make a phone call and says,

“Hey, want a beer?”

The only place nearby where beer is sold is a run-down grocery store. How much money would you give your friend for the beer?

Remember how much you gave him and reread the question. This time around, replace “run-down grocery store” with “fancy hotel.” How much money would you give your friend now? Would it be more than before?

Most people say yes. During a research experiment, the behavior economist Richard Thaler discovered that the fancy resort’s median price was 71% higher than the run-down store’s price .

Amazing, right? You were willing to pay two drastically different prices for the same bottle of beer because your perception influenced your price limit.

Now put this within the context of being a Sugar Baby.  You’d like your Sugar Daddy to give you a higher allowance, but you’re afraid he’ll say no.  So you take the next logical step: You ask for less than what you really want.

But I can guarantee you this one thing: if you low-ball yourself, your Sugar Daddy will immediately get suspicious as to why you’re willing to settle for less – and he won’t value you as a Sugar Baby as much. 

It’s all about perception and power.  Make him believe that you’re worth more by asking for more.  Nine times out of ten, he’ll not only be happy to raise your allowance – he’ll be relieved you’re asking for more.

Keeping this discovery in mind, the only logical way to negotiate a higher allowance is by developing the perception of your worth. 

Make sure to Sign Up for the Newsletter as I will be revealing Part 2 so you can learn how to put that new perception into allowance-boosting words!

Taylor