The Science Behind Sugar Daddy Dating

Wannabe Sugars vs. Real Sugar Babies

Twelve differences between those who dream and those who act:

1. Wannabe Sugars obsess about dilemmas. Sugar Babies obsess about action.
2. Wannabe Sugars want more traffic to their profiles. Sugar Babies focus on Sugar Daddy conversion.
3. Wannabe Sugars focus on hoping things will improve.  Sugar Babies plan for multiple contingencies.

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• The Sugar Daddy You Want
• And the Lifestyle You Desire

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The Sugar Daddy Game - Play to Win!

I see Sugar Daddy dating as a game with rules.  A game with certain rules and structures and you play it to win. And it’s not something random. And that is what I see all the time with Sugar Babies. They do this without any process or steps and are all over the place or one thing leading to another thing. If you would like to get inside my mind and go through my steps you can here: http://bit.ly/WHYT3B

Taylor Jones – Lifestyle Coach for Sugar Babies

The Anatomy of A Sugar Daddy Arrangement

When you are trying to set up an arrangement it consists of five main parts, the first four: understanding the psychology of Sugar Daddies, what they say they want, what they really want, and what they’ll contribute. Then the fifth part is telling your potential Sugar Daddy how you can be the person who can fulfill their needs (the value of what you bring into the relationship). Oh yes, and in order to make it this far they have to like you! (Sounds simple, and it is, however, there are many subtle skills to selling yourself to your potential Sugar Daddy and it takes time to study and practice them. If you do, you’ll find your success rate goes way up.)

Taylor (Have we met yet? If not, meet me here)

How to Manipulate Sugar Daddies for Fun & Profit

Manipulation has always been regarded as a negative thing.  After all, if you manipulate people, this makes you a bad person…right?

Not when it comes to Sugar Daddies!

Manipulating Sugar Daddies is all about giving them what they want…and what they want is to experience a certain emotion.

A certain emotion that is so compelling, they’ll practically stampede you down as they rush to meet you…the beautiful and mysterious Sugar Baby!

Want to know how to create that emotion…

And get the Sugar Daddy you’ve been dreaming about?

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Five Key Areas to Focus on your Sugar Baby Journey

Do you ever wonder why some Sugar Babies stand apart from the crowd…

While others remain unknown?

Do you ever wonder what makes one girl seem so remarkable, while the others all seem so “vanilla” and forgettable?

If you’ve ever wanted to stand apart from the masses of other Sugar Babies who are vying for the attention of Sugar Daddies everywhere, then this is for you.

I’ll show you how to leverage your uniqueness and be DISTINCT in a crowded world by focusing on five key areas of your Sugar Baby journey:

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The One Obstacle That Holds You Back, And How to Overcome It

There’s one obstacle that plagues every Sugar Baby.

This obstacle has ruined several would-be Sugar Babies…and if you don’t have the assistance to surmount this obstacle, you may as well kiss your Sugar Baby lifestyle good-bye.

Don’t know what it is yet?  Simple.

It’s “How to Ask Your Sugar Daddy for What You Want.”

Not surprisingly, plenty of Sugar Babies have difficulty asking their Sugar Daddies for what they want.  Whether it’s because of a fear of rejection, or a fear of losing their Sugar Daddies altogether, they hold themselves back from achieving the kind of allowance they deserve. 

So how can you overcome this obstacle without running the risk of losing your Sugar Daddy?

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How to Craft Contagious Content to Attract Sugar Daddies

If you want to be a successful Sugar Baby, you must be able to answer this question:

What makes a good Personal Ad?

I know it’s a tough question, but it’s crucial to your success.  And let me tell you that the Sugar Babies who figure out the answer are able to craft seriously contagious content.  You know, the kind that makes Sugar Daddies stumble over each other to write messages to her.

What’s their secret? Do they know something you don’t?

The answer is Yes! They do!

And while they may not be aware of it, they know how to push the little “traffic buttons” on their Sugar Baby profiles without fail.

How do I know this? Because I’ve done it… for years. And until recently, I was never able to explain exactly how I was able to do it.

But today, that all changes.

Ready for the secret?  Here it is:

Content that evokes high arousal emotions—positive or negative—is more contagious than content without emotion.

First, let’s emphasize what a high arousal emotion is.  You’ve certainly experienced them yourself – they’re the emotions that make us fear losing out on something. Think awe, anger, anxiety, or anything related to the fear of loss.

Now that you have the cliffs notes version of creating a contagious profile, the question becomes this: How can you apply these insights directly to your profile to create a killer ad?

Well, that’s where I come in. The Sugar Daddy Formula, after all, is all about breaking down insights from academic research, and showing you how it works for your Sugar Baby Success.

Positive uplifting content always gets shared. Remember, there are a lot of different voids that a Sugar Daddy may have, and while they are different reasons for this void, content that is uplifting and inspirational helps people get out of their rut… even if it’s only for a few seconds. You want to position yourself to be the one person whom your potential Sugar Daddy reacts positively to and who would not want more of that.  A Sugar Daddy would value that - priceless.

After all you may forget what a person says but you are not likely to forget how they make you feel.

However, in my opinion, if you’re looking to generate traffic for business purposes, you’re better off focusing on the type of Sugar Daddy you want to attract and appealing your ad specifically for that specific Sugar Daddy. Not all Sugar Daddies are alike and you will not appeal to every type of Sugar Daddy.  A profile that has stimulating words activates high arousal emotions. It has given me the best results for attracting Six-Figure Sugar Daddies , and still gives me great results today.

When you write your profile, and finish the editing process, don’t pat yourself on the back just yet, because you’re still not done. There’s one final step that you must take.  The funny thing is, almost no Sugar Baby does it.

What’s that step?

You must go through your profile, figure out the next actions you want those Sugar Daddies to take, and finish your profile with auto-replies that guides Sugar Daddies to those next action steps.

It seems so simple, but it’s powerful.

So how do you apply it?  Simple: you show your Sugar Daddies exactly how to proceed by guiding them on what you want them to do.  For example, in your profile, you could tell them to email you with great suggestions about a new book to read…or an excellent spot for wine-tasting…or anything else that will tempt them to respond to you.

And what happens? They follow your lead… you get results… and you’re a happy Sugar Baby.

Pretty cool, right?

Taylor

Attract Six-Figure Sugar Daddies with your Personal Ad - Get the Essential Tool for Crafting the Perfect Sugar Daddy Ad here.

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How Images Improve—or Destroy—Sugar Baby Success

Fellow Sugar Babies,

When you use pictures on your profile, two things can happen:

They can either help you achieve your Sugar Baby goals, or throw you right back to Square One.

Seems simple enough.

But until you learn the subtle nuances of how pictures affect Sugar Daddies, you’re standing in front of a firing squad wearing a blind fold.

So let’s remove that blind fold and get you out of there fast!

You’ve heard the old adage: “A picture is worth a 1,000 words.”

But in the Sugar Baby/Daddy world, how much is that picture actually costing you?

When you have the wrong image, Sugar Daddies either ignore your profile, or misinterpret how you’d like to be viewed.  For example, if you’re a highly educated Sugar Baby with a picture of yourself in a bikini, you won’t attract Sugar Daddies who are interested in what you have to say.

So here’s the ultimate question: “What makes a profile picture right or wrong?”

Here’s a litmus test:

When Selecting your Pictures, Make Sure You Have a Reason For Doing So

Look:

There’s plenty of real reasons for using an image on your profile.

So, when you’re going to use an image, make sure you have a reason that differs from the usual “It looks good.”

What are the reasons for using your images? What is the message you want to send to your Sugar Daddy?

Let me tell you this:

People browse the Internet reflexively. They often scan the pages they’re looking at, and it’s very easy for them to miss something vitally important to your Sugar Baby goals.

You want to use every tool in your arsenal to ensure they see what you want them to see.

You spend hours crafting your profile, so spend some extra time choosing the perfect picture for your profile. When you have the right image, you’ll be able to increase your conversion rates for generating responses.

Need help with your Sugar Baby profile? Check out The Sugar Baby Survival Kit! The Essential tool for crafting the perfect Sugar Daddy Ad.

Taylor Jones

Lifestyle Coach For Sugar Babies
Sugar Daddy Formula | Warning: may cause sugargasm
www.thesugardaddyformula.com
@taylorjones  sugarbabycoach@gmail.com

Anonymous asked: would yo ever tell a pot what school you go to?

Yes, I would if you feel like you can trust him. With a question like that I am sure you are someone who values their privacy. If you think you can hide your Sugar Baby Lifestyle…well it won’t be long before it catches up with you. Unless it is only behind closed doors. If you travel with your Sugar Daddy he will know your full contact details: Real Name, Address (or if you have a P.O Box), & Age.

My business mentor once told me to only deal with people who have more to lose than me and I also apply that knowledge to my Sugar Daddies. So pick your Sugar Daddies wisely. Meaning that if you want to insure that your privacy is kept confidential find a Sugar Daddy who has more to lose than you because they value their privacy too.

Taylor

The Biggest Red Flags in Your Sugar Baby Personal Ad

You know that your Sugar Baby allure is how you get Sugar Daddies…and your online profile is how you grab their attention. I’ve mentioned before that your online profile has to be very good in order to grab and keep your Sugar Daddy’s attention.  In fact, Sugar Daddies take only a few seconds to determine if they want to keep reading your profile. And during that second, Sugar Daddies make snap judgments about you. Before. They. Finish. Your. Profile.

Not convinced?

Your profile can TRIGGER immediate DISTRUST.

Okay, Sugar Babies, it’s time to dive into the keywords that make Sugar Daddies want to run for the hills. They are the “red flags” of the Sugar Daddy profile, and right now, there are ten massive offenders that plague even the best Sugar Baby profiles.

 So what are these ten “red flags”?  Take a look:

The 10 “Red Flags” of the Sugar Daddy Personal Ad

1.       Display of crudeness and dumbness, as in grammatically poor use of English

(They have spell check for a reason!)

2.       Lack of class

(Lines like “No Thugs” or “No Endless Emails” are tasteless)

3.       Gold digger

(If you emphasize financials, Sugar Daddies will think you’re a gold digger, plain and simple)

4.       A PPS (Platinum Pussy Syndrome)/Princess Stigma

(No Sugar Daddy wants a Sugar Baby that thinks they are entitled)

5.       Big $$$ expectations

(Why would a Sugar Daddy expect to shell out Big $$$ if they don’t even know you?)

6.       Lack of information, like what are you offering me and what do you want from me

(Why should a Sugar Daddy date you?)

7.       Fake pics, or pics with face fuzzed out, or poor quality

(For example, pics with your kids in them are a no go!)

8.       Someone who has too much baggage

(Too much information about your exes, or past Sugar Daddy relationships)

9.       A drama queen

(Sugar Daddies doesn’t want additional drama)

10.    Just average

(A profile that looks like they just threw some words on the screen and did not really spend any time putting themselves out there in the best light)

Again, if Sugar Daddies aren’t reading your profile, your personal ad failed.

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Taylor

Now I’m passing it to you.

Do you have any “red flags” in your profile?

What Sugar Daddies Want: How This One Simple Question Reveals Everything

You’ve been seeing your Sugar Daddy for some time now, and you think he’s fantastic. To really cement the Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby relationship, you’ll want to establish an allowance.

To do that, you know you’ll need to provide some value to your Sugar Daddy – but what will he considerable valuable?

Let me level with you for a moment here. There’s a much better, and totally cool way to figure out what Sugar Daddies want, and now I’ll tell you all about it.

But first, it’s important for all Sugar Babies to understand this vital concept:

“Sugar Daddies don’t know what they want until you give it to them.”

Question is, if your Sugar Daddy doesn’t know what he wants, how do you know what to give him?

The Secret to Discovering What Sugar Daddies Want is through Conversation

You know what’s funny?

If you approach Sugar Daddies as a human being instead of an ATM, and ask them the right questions, they’ll tell you exactly what they want.

And they won’t lie, either.

I’m telling you to open a conversation with your Sugar Daddies, and listen to what they have to say.

Sounds tough, but with the following tactic, it’s real easy…

“What Are You Missing out of your life?”

Why This Question is a “Double-Edged Sword”

If you don’t address it, this tactic can hurt. If you do address it, you’ll reap the rewards.

Here’s the deal:

When you ask people a personal question like “What are you missing out of your life,” you MUST take action in tending to what it is that he is missing to create that emotional bond.

So look deep inside yourself.  If your Sugar Daddy tells you exactly what he’s missing out of life, are you prepared to put in the work to help fulfill that missing puzzle piece?  Because if not, you’ll end up missing out on plenty of high-quality Sugar Daddies.

The bottom line is once you ask this question, you’ll know what your Sugar Daddy wants…and then it’ll be up to you to provide it to them.

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To Your Sugar Baby Success,

Taylor

Lifestyle Coach For Sugar Babies
Sugar Daddy Formula | Warning: may cause sugargasm
www.thesugardaddyformula.com
@taylorjones  sugarbabycoach@gmail.com

If you’re too shy to ask this question upfront, discover how you can ask the same question in your own words. Or, why not take this to the comments section so we can brainstorm together?

Biggest Mistake Every Sugar Baby Makes (And How to Avoid It)

There’s no denying that you’re a talented, attractive, and educated Sugar Baby.  You’ve got a lot to offer one lucky Sugar Daddy…and you’re determined to find him by creating the most perfect profile imaginable.

When Sugar Daddies read your profile, they look at your picture and read the headline first.

And when they click on your profile, you have seconds to grab their attention before you lose them.

How do you get these Sugar Daddies to respond?

You craft a witty headline. You pick the best picture for your profile. You make sure to mention your talents and passions.  You think you’re doing everything by the book…

But for some reason, you’re not getting the responses you were hoping to get.

So what is it that you are doing that is turning these potential Sugar Daddies away?

If you have used the site SeekingArrangement.com, you’ve already fallen into the trap – and that trap is nothing more than outlining the financial arrangement you’d like to make with a potential Sugar Daddy. 

Find it hard to believe that being so upfront with financials with Sugar Daddies is a major turn off?

Believe me, it’s true.  I know this sounds crazy.  After all, they call themselves a Sugar Daddy and should know what to expect…

But at the end of the day, who wants to be treated like an ATM?

Nobody wants to be anyone’s personal ATM, no matter how much money they have to spend. High-quality Sugar Daddies want to feel as though you’re interested in them for who they are, not their bank account balance.  Only when you reach that stage with your Sugar Daddy can you begin talking about your financial expectations – and that certainly doesn’t occur on your Sugar Baby dating profile!

The bottom line is that if you’re using SeekingArrangement.com (or any other Sugar Daddy dating site where you have to outline your financial expectations) it would be in your best interest to leave that “open.”

wow I love it :D i would have never come up with that at all seriously i love it.wow. cant stop saying that! Sugar Baby S.

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU. :)

your truly a godsend. I finally have a proper profile, and i couldn’t be happier about it. Sugar Baby G.

Taylor,

What are your thoughts? Do you leave the amount “open” or select actual limits to what you are seeking from your Sugar Daddy on your profile?